Wednesday, 25 February 2009

About Jester & Milly

About Jester & Milly
We both met on the Internet in 2008 and basically become really close literally right away, and we are both more than a couple that are engaged, we are also best friends and soul mates and we both can easily say this is the best relationship we have both had, we have been together since 21st August 2008 and are looking forward to spending our lives together, we couldn't be any happier.

(Karl) - I never thought I would have a child of my own, I was told by the doctor that I had a very low sperm count, I even had Varicocele on both of my testicles, these are a very tiny bag of worms that can grown on the testicles and are well known. They warm the sperm killing a great deal of the sperm, the only way for the Varicocele to be removed is an operation. I had them on both of my testicles and had the operation to get them removed, I honestly thought I would never have a child of my own and I know a lot of guys out there are thinking the same, I would say to them don't ever give up hope, get yourself checked out in case you have Varicocele with them removed will make a great difference, it doesn't always work though even with them removed but it betters the chance of you being able to get your partner pregnant.

Myself and Milissa have been trying for a baby for some time now and never had much luck but then falling pregnant was a huge surprise to us both, I realized its true what they say eating a lot of veggies can higher the sperm count, I am surprised I'm not walking round looking like a sprout hah aha!!! But we are so happy knowing we are both now going to have a child of our own, Milissa has two children of her own, Lewis (6) and Mazie (1) their real father didn't want anything to do with them, so I was more than happy to take them both on as my own children, the idiot does not know what he is missing out on!

We are both looking forward to the birth of our new child, things couldn't be better for us both.

How I Was Feeling From When We Found Out (3 Days Late)

I sat there looking at a white stick in my hand in our downstairs toilet hoping to see the two lines appear, me being impatient walked out of the toilet and handed it to Karl saying "Sorry baby we are not pregnant!" he takes one look and says "Hang on, yes we are!!" we were so happy as we couldn't believe it, all those months of trying and nothing and now we finally had success! We hugged and kissed and laughed!!

Off Karl goes showing the neighbors the pregnancy test sticks just to double check, bit daft really as the test was showing I was pregnant haha!!

Our Diary

12/02/09 (First Entry Of Our Diary
Today we had a midwife appointment our first one called a booking appointment. The midwife took all past details of the two pregnancies from before, blood pressure, weight, height and also talked about any worries.

I am booked in for a weeks time to have a blood test (standard Procedure), and will receive a date for our first scan which will be in three weeks time.

How am I feeling, very tender boobs, tired, queezy and a little dizzy. I go to the toilet every two minutes haha!! And hating the smell of most things.

This week I have read that the babies organs are all well on the way of being developed, it has got webbed toes and fingers at the moment which is normal as this stage in the pregnancy and is about half inch long. It is starting to jump around as the nervous system has kicked in..

Karl - Babe don't forget the mood swings you have been getting through being pregnant, its no joke having a bloody frying pan being thrown at my head and being told by you that when you give birth you will be crushing my balls to kingdom come! haha!!